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Thursday, December 12, 2019

Reunion, Odd Fellows, CoHousing, Las Vegas

I enjoyed my 30 year college reunion.  Seeing my CGA classmates, John Wolf (NAPS), and recently Terry Virts (AFA) was a great joy.   While I can't recapture the past, I can appreciate the time we had together, the bonds we shared, and traditions of the wardroom. 


At this stage of my life, I find myself seeking connection.   Having filled my life with the busyness of accomplishments, I wonder if the practices of modern living have stripped me of the simple joy of meeting new people, serendipitous chats, and friendly conversations. 

In a strange series of events, I had an offer to teach at the Coast Guard Academy; but, after serious consideration, declined.   Perhaps, the appeal of the job was a romantic ideal of reconnecting with my past, as this summer I struggled with mild depression amidst life's uncertainties.  Now, I seek ways of changing my life and creating more avenues to genuinely connect. 



Cohousing has been on my mind and I imagine, not how we live, how we should live together.  Whether it is a romantic dream or a means to build genuine connection, I have been fascinated with cohousing.  I am also pledging to become an Odd Fellow.  Surprisingly, I have found joy in the musical gatherings and club events.  Despite most members being older, I enjoy their company, wisdom, and time for each other. 

Pearl and I had a wonderful trip to Las Vegas, just the two of us.



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