I enjoyed my 30 year college reunion. Seeing my CGA classmates, John Wolf (NAPS), and recently Terry Virts (AFA) was a great joy. While I can't recapture the past, I can appreciate the time we had together, the bonds we shared, and traditions of the wardroom.
At this stage of my life, I find myself seeking connection. Having filled my life with the busyness of accomplishments, I wonder if the practices of modern living have stripped me of the simple joy of meeting new people, serendipitous chats, and friendly conversations.
In a strange series of events, I had an offer to teach at the Coast Guard Academy; but, after serious consideration, declined. Perhaps, the appeal of the job was a romantic ideal of reconnecting with my past, as this summer I struggled with mild depression amidst life's uncertainties. Now, I seek ways of changing my life and creating more avenues to genuinely connect.
Cohousing has been on my mind and I imagine, not how we live, how we should live together. Whether it is a romantic dream or a means to build genuine connection, I have been fascinated with cohousing. I am also pledging to become an Odd Fellow. Surprisingly, I have found joy in the musical gatherings and club events. Despite most members being older, I enjoy their company, wisdom, and time for each other.
Pearl and I had a wonderful trip to Las Vegas, just the two of us.
Navigating the currents of life... the hopes and dreams of building a family...married with 4 kids... living in a university town... middle-aged and growing older... all forms of bicycling (recumbent, fixed gear, road, xtracycle)... christus victor theology... left slanted politics... being Asian American... trying to make our world a better place for all... the hope of caring for the least among us... Jesus as a revolutionary...Cancer Survivor... Loving all things Code
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